Perhaps next to losing a loved one, rejection is the single most painful reality that we have to deal with. It is a natural human instinct to feel needed/wanted/appreciated, so when it seems that we're not, it hurts to the core. That hurt I believe goes beyond a human ego, but instead attacks a person's feeling of self worth.
What do you do after you've been rejected?
- Pretend it doesn't matter?
- Crumble in self pity?
- Accept it, cry or sulk for a minute then move on?
Everyone knows what the most practical answer is; but it is not by any means the easiest. How can I move on when that rejection has highlighted or created insecurities? Why am I not good enough for him/her? Why am I not good enough to make the team or be shortlisted for that job interview or get that promotion? I've been there and asked those very questions. Nothing is wrong with taking a moment to re assess yourself or make necessary adjustments (we all know that nobody's perfect and we all could use a little tweaking from time to time). The key to effectively moving on however is realising that if you're a Christian, God is not out to get you and will not hold anything back that is good for you biblegateway.com and if it doesn't happen when/how you want it God has other plans in store for you biblegateway.com. Cop out? No! Reality check? Yes! If you're not a Christian then the whole "Let Go, Let God" concept will not make much sense to you, but instead seem mighty stupid. Before you dismiss it however, really try God (and I don't mean the God somewhere out there in space, but the real personal Jesus Christ) you won't be disappointed (and that's God's guarantee, not mine).
So what's the move forward? Have you or any of your proposals, job applications or other efforts been rejected lately? I know all too well how you feel but take a positive spin to it. Look back at it and see if there is anything that could've been presented better. If it's just right as it is then it's that person's loss, move on.
Yes you can!
Yes you can!
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